The “Best Athlete” Myth within Soccer Development

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Let’s make sure that the future generation doesn’t grow-up with a stopwatch and a barbell…..but with a ball at their feet!

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A question for all higher level coaches to consider. I have a player who’s 16, but he can only play for 20 minutes a game. He’s small and can’t run, thanks to his asthma. Virtually no strength or power thanks to his size, and he obviously can’t last long in the matches with his health problems. Not an athlete at all. Interested in taking a look at him at a college showcase or one of his club games? Even better, would an academy bother giving him a second thought if his status was brought up to them?

I recently had the pleasure of attending and learning at the NSCAA Director of Coaching course, and we were presented with a small fill-in-the-blank puzzle near the beginning of the course. Let’s take that scenario listed above and put it in its proper place:

At 16, we could play ____ for only 20…

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SMALL SIDED GAMES 4V4 – DIFFERENT OBJECTIVES

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Great variations for 4v4 Play!

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SMALL SIDED GAMES 4V4  – DIFFERENT OBJECTIVES

Here are some 4v4 SSG that allow players to problem solve. Each game gives players a different objective. Players must be able to think the games through to be successful. The games encourage communication, movement, awareness decision making and most importantly makes players both attack and defend (transition).

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If You’re Not Jacked Up For Thursday, This Should Do The Trick

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One moment doesn’t define us. This is exactly what I needed today. I’ve had a terrible taste in my mouth since the 94th minute last night. Been staying pretty optimistic the whole time, especially since we have like a 76% chance of still moving on to the next round, but like any American I hate it when we don’t win. Thursday is going to be absolutely wild. I know a lot of people are out there saying they’ll settle for the tie but to be honest, I need this win. Think about it. It’s basically Star Wars. Klinsmann (plus the other 6 Germans we have on the squad) is Luke Skywalker and Germany is Darth Vader. How much would those movies fucking suck if Darth Vader survived at the end of Return of the Jedi and they just both went on living their lives happy with the…

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THE FOUNDATIONS OF TEAM CULTURE (PART II: PURPOSE)

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DESIRE, VISION, FOCUS

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“You see, life is simple. But in all our stuff we make it complicated and become blinded to the simple truths.”

(Jon Gordon, The Energy Bus)

In my last post I discussed the different ways to change your attitude in order to create or change your team culture. Attitude is the first step to change because it creates different views on how you handle challenges and how your team will handle challenges. Once you have started to create a culture that has a positive atmosphere to the challenges you face, the next step is creating a desire and vision for the team to work towards together. As a leader it is your desire and vision that you must share with your team. To create a desire and vision that the team can share you will be able to provide a clear focus on the purpose of the final product.

Many teams over the years try to replicate and produce successful results but seem to fail more often than succeeding. In order to find continuous success, many leaders fail to clearly communicate their overall desire and vision of their purpose that drives the work ethic of their team. The lack of a clear purpose can cause a team to have a blurry focus, which results in a decrease in results. Sometimes leaders actually lose sight of their desires and vision, so when they try to inspire their team the message becomes confusing amongst the different team members.

 

HOW TO DEFINE AND SHARE YOUR DESIRE, VISION, & FOCUS:

DESIRE

Desire is where all great success stories start with because it is the passion to why individual leaders fight for their beliefs. Steve Jobs had a desire to revolutionize the use of personal computers. Mark Zuckerberg had a desire to revolutionize the way people connect via the World Wide Web and created The Facebook, now known as Facebook. Kevin Plank had a desire to create a shirt that would help him stay cool in hot temperatures and revolutionized athletic gear with his brand, which we know as Under Armour. These three individuals had a clear desire when they started and it was that desire that was fueled with passion that made their success stories. Can you clearly identify your desire and passion? Here are a couple of questions that you should ask yourself when trying to define your desire.

What do you stand for? Before we can inspire others we must have an understanding of ourselves. What are the core values that you represent? Your core values are what define how you make decisions and why you make them. It is important as a leader to understand your core values so you can understand how others base their decision-making off of their core values. Below are some examples of core values:

Respect

Love

Harmony

Reliability

Accountability

Integrity

 

“Your core values affect your day-to-day behavior and effectiveness as a leader.”

(Mark G Miller)

 

VISION

The vision of a leader is the overall goal of what and how you want to be seen in the future. When you close your eyes what do you see as success in the future? Here are some questions you should ask yourself:

In 5, 10, 20 years what do you consider successful at work? Life? Relationships? Well you are thinking into the future what are you seeing, how are you feeling? The visions you see as success in the future is what your definition of happiness is. Your vision of the future is what your goal should be and in order to do that you need to define what you have seen. Now that you have a picture in your head about what happiness is, write it down into a vision/mission statement of what you want to accomplish.

For example:

I assist a soccer team and we recently started to remake our team’s culture so it would sustain success and create strong individuals. When the head coach and myself sat down to define what we want this team to mean in the future we came up with this mission statement:

JWU Women’s Soccer Vision Statement

“To develop long lasting relationships with friends, family and teammates that challenges one another to become stronger individuals on a daily basis; by developing character, leadership and excellence.”

 

FOCUS

Now that we have a defined your passion and your vision of what you want in the future it is time to focus on making your vision come true! There are two parts of a team’s focus, which are, the people we focus on and the basics that we focus on daily to reach our end results.

Focus on those who create your team. When you are a leader/coach it is important that you create a team that is inspired to reach the same vision that you are trying to succeed at. When you meet with your current team you need to clearly communicate your desire and vision and allow them to have the opportunity to agree or disagree. If they agree, then GREAT that means it is time for the next step. If they DISAGREE, that is okay as well. You need to then need to allow for those team members to go their separate way and discover their own vision to work towards. If you have members that disagree with your desire and/or vision it is okay to go separate paths with no hard feelings. A team that works towards a purpose they don’t fully believe can create a negative atmosphere when met with challenges.

The key to creating a team culture that sustains success is to recruit and retain team members that will work towards the same vision that you have envisioned.

Once you have a solid team it is important to define your focus on to key ideas that you believe will get you on a daily basis to succeed. The simplicity of the focus makes it easier to evaluate your progress. This way the team you have created can focus on a daily basis if they are doing the simple things at work, in life or on the field. It is the small steps that make big pictures happen.

For example:

JWU Women’s Soccer Focus

As a program we have defined our desires, vision and the team members that want to work towards the same purpose. When it came time to reveal our focus to our team members, we as coaching staff came up with:

LOVE – Love the sport you play, the people you are around, the University you will graduate from, etc.

SERVE-Serve the team, the team members, the University and the community in order to create relationships that last well beyond your playing career. Serve because it will help breed success rather than trying to serve to gain power & rank.

CARE – Care about the results, care about the people, care about the development of the sport, care about your peers. Care about end results that you work towards.

We defined those three characteristics to focus on and evaluate on every day performance in all aspects of the program.

 

 

OVERVIEW:

Desire, Vision & Focus are key steps to creating a purpose that fuels that team culture you wish to produce in all aspects of life, whether in relationships, business, and/or sport. If you can clearly discover, define and communicate your desire and vision into a simple focus your team will have a clear path made for them during their time under your leadership.

 

Desire – What you stand for as an individual

Vision – What you want as your ultimate goal in order to be successful in life/work

Focus – A simple way to focus your team on a way to evaluate success on a day-to-day basis

 

 

 

Share your thoughts below & share this with others that you think would be interested in the topic! Until next time when we discuss more on creating a positive team culture within your organization.

The 5 Traits of High Performing Product Teams

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“The 5 Traits of High Performing Product Teams” (posted by Eran) is a great read that is based off the book “Five Dysfunctions of a Team”. Excellent post that all leaders/coaches should check out!

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Creating a strong and healthy culture allowing teams to perform to their best potential is super important in any team and especially in product teams where cultural and performance issues may have a severe impact on other teams they interact with.

I first read Five Dysfunctions of a Team a few years ago and read it again recently. I highly recommend it to any manager or leader – it’s a light read and is quite insightful and effective in making you think about the type of culture you’d like to nurture in your team.

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THE FOUNDATIONS OF TEAM CULTURE (PART I: ATTITUDE)

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“Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference.” (Winston Churchill)

 

The importance of team culture is highly underrated in many organizations whether we are discussing business or athletics, but it’s usually is the key ingredient to the repeat offenders that continuously find themselves at the top against their competitors.

 

Apple, INC is a company that overcame obstacles that others continuously believe they will fail at and revolutionized a whole generation to go digital.

Messiah College soccer programs have brought home more national championships than any other school, including division II and division I programs.

University North Carolina women’s soccer program has become the gold standard for women’s soccer programs across country because of their success within their conference, at the national level and with the amount of professional soccer stars they have produced annually.

Pat Summit, former head women’s basketball coach for Tennessee, holds the most all-time wins for a coach in the NCAA basketball history from either men or women’s team in all divisions.

 

Whether a company, an athletic team or an individual you will find one thing that is shared amongst all and that is, a team culture with a positive attitude. Attitude is one of the key foundations to creating a team culture that sustains success. As Winston Churchill stated, “attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference.”

 

I have worked with several different athletic programs and currently working with a soccer program that is defining their team culture. I have found that the first step in change is, ATTITUDE.

These are the 3 attitude adjustments I have invested in:

 Positive vs Negative Reinforcement

Positive vs Negative reinforcement has been discussed over the past couple years and many find it is a split decision on what side you think is works best. I am not going to argue whether which is right or wrong, but show you my perspective on what I think works best. I understand in generations before it was called tough love or you shouldn’t have to be Mr. Positive all the time but the truth is just because it was tradition to point out all the wrong things before doesn’t mean that it was the best option. Don’t get me wrong there are definitely times when you need to reinforce a bad behavior with punishment but I recommend preventing those steps before it is needed.

The affects that negative reinforcement are sometimes positive yes, but usually in the long run it is pretty negative results. Have you heard a coach say “GET ON THE LINE” and what usually follows that is the player(s) correcting their mistake, but what you don’t see is the longevity that those reinforcing ways can have on the overall results. If this coaching tactic is used on a daily basis it can create a negative vibe for individuals. Players will sometimes going home hating their coach and what is worse is they may learn to hate the sport. Because of a habit to always recognize poor results with a negative reinforce (such as “get on the line”) player can develop an internal fear. Fear though it may be a projected vision of the future that may or may not happen it can have a dramatic effect on an individual’s performance. If a coach or someone in a leadership role always uses negative reinforcements they are teaching those that they speak to, to concentrate on the mistakes rather than the positive possibilities. So yes, negative reinforcements may get you instant results but are those results worth risking future success? I don’t believe they are which is why I recommend using positive reinforcement.

Positive reinforcement can do remarkable things for the longevity of all programs. The ability to recognize individuals on their success rather than their failures can open many doors along the way that develop individuals to be stronger competitors. Some of the doors you may open along your way of positively reinforcing those you work with can be their individual attitude to put the work in, creates trust and appreciation towards upper management. Positive reinforcement is not just cheering every little detail along the way but the ability to help individuals adjust in a positive environment where they don’t have to fear their mistakes. By recognizing success you allow those you work with to feel appreciated and concentrate on the positive things they have done rather than the mistakes they have made. There are many different ways to use positive reinforcement such as an acknowledgement chart, being more solution-focused (more about this later), or another way is using the 3:1 methodology (3 positives, 1 negative).

The way you reinforce a culture you want in your organization determines the overall attitude and atmosphere of your team.

 

Effort vs Error

Now that we have covered the effect that different reinforcement styles can have, I believe it is only fear to discuss the correct opportunities when you can use either or.

When players come to train every day for their practice I remind them that they have to define what they can control and what they can’t control. They can’t control the weather, but they sure can control the work ethic they put into each training session. So when it comes to effort I believe that you should always put 100% in because there is no reason for you to be there otherwise. I find that if a player is not putting the effort in this is a primary example of when you can use a negative reinforcement to emphasis your point. Though they still won’t be happy, there is no one other than themselves at fault which is why a negative reinforcement usually has the best result here.

An error or mistake cannot always be prevented. I personally don’t recruit for members that know it all nor do I claim to know it all, so I do not expect players to perform without mistakes. When it comes to making an error in the office, classroom or field you should recognize this as a learning experience and use positive reinforcement to make adjustments.

I have found that many coaches don’t always recognize the difference between effort and error’s. The way a leader or coach responds to these when they do not meet a certain standard is the start of how attitude affects a team.

 

Problem Focused vs Solution Focused

It seems that today’s generation and generations to come have been developed to be problem focused rather than solution focused, which to me is a huge problem.

When you are problem focused you are focused on the past, which can result in a lot of drama in an organization. Problem focused people recognize a problem and continue to review the problem rather than fixing what has happened. Our program ran into this a lot this previous season and though the incidents were small it, our problem-focused team made the incidents a lot larger than they should have been. For example a player goes out the night before a game, the team recognizes that the player should not do this but instead of going to get them from the evening’s event they just spread the word to other team members. The more the team focused on the problem (rule breaking) the more the team divided. The more the team divided the more those that broke the rules felt excluded. This is a common act amongst most, which is why I believe those that are solution-focused find the most success.

Solution-focused people are focused on the future; once they recognize a problem they find a way to solve the problem. This change in their attitude to focus on solutions, rather than problems, allows individuals to discover and change their ways. By learning how to fix their problem they individually change bad habits. For example if the members of the team that I previously spoke about had discovered a problem (a rule breaker) and instead of telling other the problem, they went and found a solution then the small incident would have been forgotten. A solution focused team member would have heard about the teammate that went out the night before a game & immediately went to pull them out of the evening events to correct the mistake that had occurred.

The ability to recognize and adjust problem focused and solution focused attitudes can make a huge difference within an organization. If you can put a high concentration on the way you as an individual views a problem, this will spread throughout your organization. If an organization can create a solution focused team then they can create an atmosphere that doesn’t have a fear of mistakes and is open to discovering and changing their ways for the better.

 

OVERVIEW

A change in attitude is the start of change in an organization. Though it is a small change, it is a change towards a bigger goal of creating a culture that invites talent, rather than fears new talent. Many organizations have created atmospheres that suffocate employees due to fear of making mistakes, or because of the negative atmosphere within a team/organization.

I truly believe that if you change your attitude and towards the three topics I covered:

Positive vs Negative Reinforcement

Effort vs Error

Problem-Focused vs Solution-Focused

 

You will begin the change in your culture. What you do as a leader trickles down into those that you lead. As a coach you will hear that those that you recruit into your program represent you as a person because they communicate the same way. With that being said if you can demonstrate these attitude changes or adjustments those that you inspire will most likely make the same changes which is why you are on your way to creating a positive culture within your team/organization.

 

UNTIL NEXT TIME WHEN WE DISCUSS MORE ON THE FOUNDATIONS OF CREATING A POSITIVE TEAM CULTURE!

 

The Carpenter: A Story About the Greatest Success Strategies of All

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Bestselling author Jon Gordon returns with his most inspiring book yet — filled with powerful lessons and the greatest success strategies of all.

Michael wakes up in the hospital with a bandage on his head and fear in his heart. The stress of building a growing business, with his wife Sarah, caused him to collapse while on a morning jog. When Michael finds out the man who saved his life is a Carpenter he visits him and quickly learns that he is more than just a Carpenter; he is also a builder of lives, careers, people, and teams.

As the Carpenter shares his wisdom, Michael attempts to save his business in the face of adversity, rejection, fear, and failure. Along the way he learns that there’s no such thing as an overnight success but there are timeless principles to help you stand out, excel, and make an impact on people and the world.

Drawing upon his work with countless leaders, sales people, professional and college sports teams non-profit organizations and schools, Jon Gordon shares an entertaining and enlightening story that will inspire you to build a better life, career, and team with the greatest success strategies of all.

If you are ready to create your masterpiece, read The Carpenter and begin the building process today!

Visit www.Carpenter11.com

Check out this video on The Carpenter:
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Captain America reminds us what Leadership is all about.

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Another hero leads with great character!

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Captain America reminds us what Leadership is all about.

1. Persistence is the manifestation of passion.

2. Figure out exactly what you’re passionate about and do it more.

3. Action says more than speeches.

4. Surround yourself with people who share your passion.

If there is one line in this article that resonates with me it’s “Leadership involves a passion that works like a magnet in attracting people to you and your cause”.  Regardless of what we do or how we do it, if you have passion in our drive and endeavor, we will give it more than we thought was possible.

 Read the article by CEO.com and you judge whether you agree or not: http://www.ceo.com/leadership_and_management/4-leadership-lessons-from-captain-america/.

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5 LESSONS FROM SUPERMAN

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As children we grow up watching superhero films and cartoons and everyone seems to have a favorite hero. Growing up I found I loved SUPERMAN! How can you not love superman he is SUPER. Then the other day when we were going to watch the new film Superman with Henry Cavill one of my players asked me why are we watching this, superman is overrated!  I was so caught off guard that I went into utter shock about how someone could even consider superman being overrated. So I decided it was time for the world to understand how amazing Superman really is!

I understand the argument that Superman isn’t that great because he is born with all his powers, unlike other hero’s like batman who is a man that chooses to create himself into a hero (which I think is another impressive statement on its own). The reason I believe Superman is the greatest superhero of all is because he is born with all his powers, he could do anything he wanted to and no one has the power to truly stop him. Which in many peoples eyes makes it look like he lives an easy life but something that is so simple that many people overlook when it comes to Superman is that he makes a CHOICE everyday to be a positive influence in the world. With all his powers he could easily rule the world and walk around with an arrogance that enslaves the people around him. But instead he makes the choice every day to use his power for positive influence, when he is having a bad day he chooses to do the right thing not what he wants to do. He makes SACRIFICES for the cause and that cause is HOPE.

 

This might seem like a simple idea but when you think about your everyday life how many times have you had to make the decision between what you WANT and the RIGHT thing to do? FEEL vs ACT one of the hardest things to separate when working with a team because it usually means there is a sacrifice in some way or another. Now the ability to separate FEEL & ACT is no minor act and can usually have a positive or negative effect on a team chemistry. Now when you apply this thought process to the concept of SUPERMAN, who has to make this decision in every moment of his life you can have a stronger understanding of why I believe SUPERMAN is such an inspiration. If he made the decision to do what he FELT LIKE rather than what NEEDED to be done then he could have blocked out the light at the end of the tunnel that would have destroyed all hope for people around him. But he made a choice to use his ability to help others rather than himself. So here are the lessons we can learn from SUPERMAN and use to everyday life:

 

1. FEEL vs ACT:

Just because you can do something doesn’t mean you should. DO THE RIGHT THING. Separate your feelings of what you want from what you need to do!

2. SERVE

Sometimes you need to SACRIFICE your personal gain in order to help the team in their mission. When the team benefits, you benefit! Superman sometimes would sacrifice his personal needs in order to help the people.

3. THE LITTLE CHALLENGES ARE JUST AS IMPORTANT AS THE BIG ONES

Everyday we face new challenges, some are big & some are small. The small ones are what builds character and the big ones test that character. Superman was born with strength but the strength could have made him a negative impact on the world if he didn’t overcome the little challenges along the way! His choices in his everyday life are what made him a superhero, not his abilities.

4. BELIEVE

Sometimes you will only see the NEGATIVE, but during the dark times you need to believe that there is a way! There is always HOPE as long as you believe.

5. POWER VS CHARACTER

Your abilities will get you so far but your character will keep you there. If superman didn’t make decisions based on his values people would not trust him and he wouldn’t be able to have the support of the people.

 

SUPERMAN MAY LOOK LIKE AN OBVIOUS SUPERHERO BECAUSE OF HIS ABILITIES BUT IT IS HIS VALUES THAT BUILDS HIS CHARACTER AND MAKES PEOPLE BELIEVE IN HIM, WHICH IS THE REASON HE IS A SUPERHERO.